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Are You Clear About What You Want?

Posted on April 21, 2018 at 2:20 PM Comments comments (111464)

Hi Everyone!


Last week I had cataract surgery. The cloudy natural lens on my left eye was replaced with a clear artificial lens. It is amazing how clearly I can see now, but what is even more amazing is how I didn’t know just how cloudy my vision was before the surgery.

It made me stop and think about my life’s vision. I have a framed quote in my office over my desk. It reads ”When I am clear about what I want, what I need shows up!” I used to think I was clear but now I realize sometimes our life’s vision can get cloudy so gradually over time that we don’t even know that we are not seeing clearly.

Unfortunately our life’s vision can’t be corrected with a simple surgery. But we can correct it.

“Your outlook on your life is a direct reflection of how you like yourself.” - Lululemon.

Don’t be afraid to dream big. Decide what you want and visualize yourself having it, but most importantly, feel it. Feel yourself doing whatever it is.

Feel the thrill! It is not silly or trivial. Go for it!

Many of the women I have coached express confusion or they say they don’t know what they want. After years of taking care of kids, husbands, clients, elderly parents, they can’t see clearly because they have no idea what they want to do with the rest of their life.

So ladies, how is your vision? Are you clear about what you want? Spring is here and there is no better time to start anew. Get out a notebook and pen. Ask yourself:

What do I love to do ?

If you could do anything you wanted, what would you choose?

If you had a million dollars to spend, how would you spend it?

Who inspires you?

Who do you admire?

What do you really want?

Why do you want it?

What is stopping you?

What would you like to believe?

What would happen if you could?

Have fun with this...I hope it helps your vision improve.

Remember: You can’t have what you want if you don’t know what you want. The best way to gain clarity is to meditate. Just close your eyes and breathe. Let the Holy Spirit inspire you to see God’s point of view. Pray for clarity. Ask God what is His plan for you. You can start today...just ask Him. “When He, the Spirit Of Truth, comes, He will guide you into all truths”


If you need some help, contact me!

Bye for now!

Deborah O’Brien